Have you heard? “choices have consequences?” well they do, but look on the flip side they also have lots and lots of benefits especially when you make the right choices and changes.
Its critical that we make the right choices and changes in our lives so that we can live a stress free life. We all want a good life but most of us want a good life that is given to us on a shiny silver platter full of all the goodies we wish to have. If only that was within my reach, I would have grabbed it is and took off like a mad man so that nobody can steal my sweet treasure. I hate to disappoint you but hardly do we get to have a good life and lifestyle without breaking a sweat. I assure you that what am telling you is so true. Take it as a personal experience and confession.
We all want change but most of us do not want to change and that is why we end up miserable. We blame other people for our failures, struggles and problems. Those who do not want to change are usually very good at pointing fingers and blaming others for their own mistakes, yet in real sense, the one they want to blame for all their misfortunes have their life figured out. They have something called ‘Purpose,Will and Drive’ which most of the time the whiner lacks.
When you have come to the decision of making the right choices and changes be ready to face obstacles. Making choices and changes is very easy, the hardest part is committing to these choices and changes. If you are able to overcome the obstacles and withdrawals that comes with change, then I assure you that you are getting closer to that beautiful happy place you want to be in.
Nothing comes easy. I say this because I have been in that place where I resolved on changing my behavior and attitude but I found myself going back to my old habits just a few days later. I honestly struggle and till to-date I still do struggle but I vowed to keep fighting those forces that pull me back.
The moment you start winning against those bad forces that pull you back, the easier it becomes. It is more like walking on a hilly place and you feel like throwing in the towel and going back. Going back is definitely easy; you wont break a sweat; you wont have aches and pains…. VERY EASY! RIGHT?
Well picture this, you sweated your ass off climb a hill, and here comes a nice man/lady handing you a glass of well chilled lemonade. Yummy! One sip of the lemonade and you feel victorious more so like a conqueror. That is the sound of victory… Hard-work pays…
So when you choose to change be ready to overcome your obstacles and withdrawals and you’ll definitely be a conqueror.
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