Ola Happy people,
How do you deal with the hidden or unsuspected dangers you face in your life? How do you deal with broken family relationships? Heartbreaks? Broken friendship? Or Betrayal? Well, I deal with mine through venting and speaking out. Some people tend to think that I am too fragile and that I tend to take things personal yet I shouldn’t. But one thing that stands out is that when it hurts it hurts and the only way to get through such emotional and mental roller coaster is through venting and speaking up. Thats the only way you can heal.
People face different circumstances in life, some are regrettable and some leave a lifetime scar and such experience can change you for the worse if you do not deal with them heads on. The key to finding closure is through speaking up and finding closure. It is important to inform someone when they have wronged you so that you can relieve yourself off the burden that your carrying. Speaking out allows you to tell that person exactly what they did that caused you pain. It allowed the other person to think of his/her actions and choose whether they want to apologize and mend the relationship. At times those who wrong us do not actually know the effects of their actions in our lives, and it is not because they are ignorant, no. It could simple be that they, themselves are in a chaotic roller coaster that has made them illusive in their thoughts and actions. Speaking out is closure not just for you, but for the one who has wronged you and at times, you who speaks up first might actually mend this other person.
It is also important to have a spiritual friend and group who can help you deal with the pitfalls of life. Sharing most of the time makes things seem so light and you even get to became a better person. You learn how to mend relationships and build strong bonds. Keep those who are for peace and happiness near you. Keep those groups/friends who will always come to your aid when you need them. Surround yourself with positive people.
For those who think that speaking out is a cry for attention, then,they are basically slaves to the chaos in there lives. Do not bottle up things that bother you. Speak out and be heard and find closure. Do it for yourself and no one else. Remember you are not doing it to get an apology or affection, you are doing it to free your mind, thoughts and emotions.
Free yourself from the problems you face in your life and let this problems go away with the wind, blow away and forgotten..